The book
Alone Together is a very interesting look at how technology affects
relationships between people.
I found the most
relatable chapters are the ones about the paradox of social media: Facebook is
supposed to connect people who otherwise would have little to contact. In the
days of yore, former classmates would only see each other at reunions once
every decade, if at all. But now you can know what the girl who used to sit
next to you in homeroom grew up to be, how many kids she has and how they celebrated
their birthday.
But, as author
points out, many people use social media as a substitute for real human
contact. She interviews a middle-aged woman who says she used to call her
friends when she wanted to catch up with them, but now because of all the hours
she works she doesn't have the energy to talk on the phone and would rather
trade texts or Facebook messages. Several people featured in the book said they
worry that picking up the phone and calling someone seems intrusive, like you're interrupting their life.
The author also
interviews several teenagers who send and receive thousands of texts each month
and dread actually talking to friends, boyfriends and girlfriends on the phone.
Some of the most
disturbing chapters of the book explore how "sociable robots" may
someday be employed as a substitute for humans. The author describes
experiments in which robots are used as substitutes for caretakers of children
whose parents are overworked and the elderly whose children and grandchildren
are too busy to visit them. Is this a glimpse of the not-too-distant
future?